Truthfully i don't have an ideal person in mind as keeping an open mind here. We are crazy and fun to be around i like hangin out at home or going out for a little fun i'm 30 year old bi-female looking for other men and women while he watches and maybe helps out (?). Discreet guy who is laid back and up for trying most things once and have already explored a bit but first time being on a site like this! Have a heightened (ok maybe out there at times ) sense of humour - but hey if you cant enjoy a simple laugh to help put everything into a relative perspective then maybe you adhere to malcolm fraser's quote of " life wasn't meant Concord, CA to be easy".